My condolences Scott, I couldn't imagine. I have 5 kids, my oldest is 22 and youngest just turned a year.
I feel so bad for you, Idk what I'd do. You'll be in my prayers, it has to be the hardest thing anyone ever has to go thru, I hope to God I never do, man I hope I don't.
But the fact that anyone does really sum no words to say, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers