Communication requires a sender, a receiver, and feedback. If you receive feedback that your communication failed, how can you blame the receiver?
Go ahead and pity me too, because "its pity i feel for 1 with such skill" sounds like an insult to me. Not that I care. Actually, I don't even know what you are talking about beyond this post. Guess I'm an imbicile for failing to decode your message. Dang.
I probably need to clarify my own words. It may appear that I am angry, but I am not. I just wanted to make a point about communication in general, in the spirit of this topic.