Oh, I couldn't avoid it. I've been calling her a couple of times a month for a long time now. Sometimes more often. I would talk to her for about half an hour and to my dad for a few minutes. Sometimes I would talk to Dad first because it was easier to have a conversation with him when I hadn't used up all my stories on Nancy. But mostly I would talk to Nancy. So it would be horrible, horrible, horrible, unthinkable, for me to stop calling her.
But still very strange not to have her ask, "So would you like to talk to your Dad now?" That was the big gaping hole in the routine that I was afraid would be hanging there.
But it was okay.